Stay Faithful – Why? Ask Yourself 5 Questions to Assess Sexy Sex Vs Hot Unfaithfulness

Why indeed is the world overly obsessed with having sex with partners outside their marriage?
We read almost daily about the unfaithfulness of politicians, entertainers, sports heroes, etc.

Why?

Hot sex with a new partner can be exciting, mysterious and contribute to an ego high – but, in the overall scheme of things, it is very short-lived compared to the long-term damage it can cause.

Marital Sex , on the other hand, can be long-reflecting, bonding couples emotionally in happy marriage-it's the bond that is sacred to the husband and wife alone. It's so powerful that its deceit can destroy a marriage when one mate is unfaithful.

To keep families intact and the love between couples strong and ever growing, partners need to stay faithful . The sad conclusion of unfaithfulness is that it is so UNNECESSARY because …

Sex is something you can get practically anywhere; anytime; with any type of person you want: Tall, short, fat, thin, white, black, yellow, red, poor, rich, pretty, ordinary, ugly, young or cougar. Some women have big boobs, little boobs or average boobs. Men have long members, short members, or average. Just select what you want. No big deal. Be aware, though, that it is only ' temporary ' pleasure.

But Marital Sex IS a Big Deal . It comes with lifelong, permanent benefits when kept intact. So before slipping into unfaithfulness, ask yourself 5 questions about sex outside of marriage. Is it something:

1. So rare it's worth risking the breakup of an entire family?
2. So inviting it's worth ripping your spouse's heart in two.
3. So tantalizing it's worth ruining the lives of the children?
4. So delicious it's worth the risk to destroying a promising or established career?
5. So rapturous it's worth under financial financial stability in divorce?

Obviously unfaithfulness is not the route to happiness.

What, then, are the benefits that should motivate couples to stay faithful?

ï½ As As you share the years together you will build up a strong love and friendship for one another. Can you finish each other's sentences yet? Do you know what the other one is thinking? Does your conversation go beyond the weather and sports, to describe what you're thinking, feeling, dreaming, and scheming? It will come! Such intimacy is touching and it can happen for you when you work at your marriage.

ï½ As As you share the years together happily married couples trust one another implicitly. Trust can not be emphasized enough. Without it, your marriage is basically dead.

ï½ As As you share the years together you will highly prize a clear conscience because you are not guilty of doing anything wrong to betray or hurt your spouse. You are not living in dread wondering whether your lies will be exposed because you have not told any.

ï½ Stay Staying faithful affords you and your mate the joy of witnessing children millions: when they take their first steps. When they graduate from college. When you hold your first grandchild.

ï½ Fin Finally you will be able to enjoy your golden years together, whether gardening, golfing, or perhaps cruising the world together with your best friend and lover in retirement.

These are just a few benefits of faithness vs unfaithfulness. So I ask– is it worth it to stay faithful?


Source by Donna Patterson

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